I Love Him, But What Can I Do To Turn Him Gay?

You spot the good-looking Adonis at a friend’s party and fell head over heels in love with him. But alas! Gorgeous girls have already surrounded him and he seems to be enjoying every bit of the attention showered on him by the members of fairer sex. Now what can you do? Will you leave the party midway with a broken heart? … ‘Hope I had a magic wand whose touch could make him my man’ – you utter these words to yourself…

This is, of course, a tricky situation. Turning a straight guy into gay is something next to impossible. It largely depends on your luck. Still, our suggestions can definitely be of great help…

If he is an unknown guy, try to make friendship with him. If he is already your friend, then make an effort to take your friendship to a higher level. Don’t run after something impossible; instead opt for a more practical solution.

After becoming friends with him, you can ask him his opinions on various gay issues. Thus, you can get a, somehow, clear picture of his attitude towards gay people. If his reactions seem positive, then you can ask him directly whether he has same-sex preference, or to be more precise, whether he harbors sexual feelings for you.

Take your time to come out. Let your friendship blossom first. If you really find him worth of you, then other things may wait for sometimes. Earning his trust as a friend is crucial. Don’t disclose your intimate desires and innermost feelings for him hastily. If he is a genuine guy, he will never let your friendship go, in spite of knowing that you are gay.

Give him enough time and space to think over your sexuality. Maybe, this is for the first time in his life he has heard a man professing love for him. So, he will definitely need some time to get over with the confusion. He can even become very much scared.

Never force him to fall in love with you. Instead, get closer to him gradually. Try not to have sex forcefully with him by any means. Too much of queer persuasion can have tragic consequences. So, be careful.

If you are successful in developing a strong bond of friendship with him, then your process of seducing him gets easier. Once, your friendship reaches such a level that you two cannot live without each other, then attracting him sexually won’t be that difficult. Remember the tagline of the awesome cowboy-romance ‘Brokeback Mountain’ that says ‘Love is a force of nature’. The movie depicts a deep and passionate love affair between two cowboys. One of them, though straight, could not control himself from falling in love with another man. The force called love is so powerful that it can make one person fall in love with any other individual; sometimes even the gender of the person becomes inconsequential.

Though you cannot turn a straight guy gay, you can make someone aware of his true sexuality. As heterosexuality is perceived to be ‘normal’ in our society, many gay guys grow up thinking that they are straight, which they are actually not. In these situations, you can help him to discover his preferences through your love, affection and power of seduction.

As per the Kinsey Scale of the Kinsey Report, sexual orientations of different people are divided into seven levels. Exclusive heterosexuals are labeled as ‘0’ whereas the number ‘6’ is used to signify exclusive homosexuals. So, if your guy has a higher number (say, 4 or 5), the possibility of making him aroused with your sexual foreplay increases.

Some straight people are pretty curious about gay people and love to experiment. If your guy falls under this category, then you can get him easily.

Try to read his sexuality from his behaviors and gestures. Give fleeting touches to his various body parts. Caress his hairs and forehead with your fingers if he has got a headache. You may just ask him whether he wants his back rubbed by you while bathing. Asking for a satisfying oil massage too is not a bad idea at all.

Give him hugs regularly and occasional kisses too! Watch his expressions during and after these activities. If he is not trying to prevent you much, then you can be sure that he has developed feelings for you.

Join a gym or swimming club together. Then, you can have the chance to see each other’s bare bodies. Try to notice whether he is staring at you while working out or swimming.

Tell him that you have a great choice of clothes, especially underwear. Make him dress in front of you. It can provide you an opportunity to touch his private parts. If you are fortunate enough, he will get excited right away. Now, he will let your hands play all over his body.

But, keep in mind - never ever lose your precious self-esteem just for the sake of a guy.

Be patient. Sometimes, letting things unfold in their natural course of action is the best possible way. Keep your hopes alive, maybe he is not gay, but that doesn’t mean he is 100% straight. Still, there are chances left of being at least bi-sexual. If he is destined to be yours, then, someday you will surely be in his arms!

About the Author:
Jon Wilke is the Media Relations Specialist at Faith Comes By Hearing. Our mission statement is to record and use heart-language Audio Bibles and Online Bibles to bring churches together and make disciples from every nation, tribe, language, and people.