Life's Passion-Part 4

This soulful mother would tell you these words in all kindness and consideration for you in order to encourage you to come to her anytime you were confused about what you were experiencing sexually, or what your friends were telling you about this great gift. This would have helped you immensely in your sexuality and its expression later on in life.

Is this the kind of treatment most of you get when you are in sexual exploration? No, quite the contrary occurs. Have you ever wondered why there seems to be this energy around sexuality and its expression? Yes, but I guess I never took it further with questioning God. Why not? I don’t really know why…I guess life get’s in the way, and you just learn to move forward with it. Besides we are not all encouraged to question much God. Questions could bring us pain, grief and problems. Why is that my child? Again, I don’t know. Scott, it is just the opposite here…all of you should be encouraged to ask as many questions as possible. Parents should be open to all questions, even the ones that seem uncomfortable to answer. Yes, I know this now God. I have raised three children myself. And Scott, how did you do with their questions of sexuality? I stifled it in some way God, because I was under a belief system of religion that clamped down on its expression too. So, I parroted to my son what I was told about pre-marital sex and sexual exploration. Scott, in love can I expose these conversations you had with your son about what your idea at that time in your life was about sexuality? Yes, God…if it will help someone else not make the same mistakes as me, I am willing to express them. Good…let’s proceed then, shall we? Sure God.

So, Scott, what did you say to your own son about his sexuality? Not, much to be honest with you God. But, my wife coerced me to talk to my son about experimentation and masturbation. What did you say to him about this? Well, God, I am not real proud of what I said to him, in fact I feel guilty now about what I did say to him and ashamed at myself. Wow, my son…all these emotions are coming up around your conversation with your son? Yes, God…I feel really bad that I gave him some terrible advice. What kind of advice my child? Stupid advice. Like what? Like that masturbation was punishable by hell and was tantamount to homosexuality? That to masturbate or experiment with yourself was sinful and needed God’s forgiveness. Scott, I know this hurts your heart right now because you are opening it for me to look inside.

Scott, let’s set aside your idea of your conversation with your son around his sexuality for a minute. What do you know now my son? I know now that all sexuality is perfectly normal and not sinful as I had been told. I know now it is one of the greatest ways to express one’s being. Okay, Scott, setting aside love for your own wife or mate, what is your idea of sexual experimentation now? Again, perfectly normal God. I realize there is no sin in masturbation or the pleasuring yourself sexually. Good. I am glad you feel this way. Do you feel it to be sinful now my child? No, deep down, no. Scott, you seemed to have some hesitation here…are you sure you have shed all shame over any kind of sexual or personal expression of sex? God, only you know for sure. I will say this it is getting better for me. What do you mean by getting better for you? Just that…there seems to be improvement in my ideas of my sexuality. This is great Scott, I am all about you seeing improvement in this area.

What about your own personal lovemaking with your beloved spouse? God, it is getting better too. Good, can you elaborate for me more about this improvement? Sure. Scott, will you explain your first honeymoon night to me? In all the detail? In as much as you feel secured to tell me…leave off for the sake of your audience, any lucid terms, or expression if you will. Okay, well I was all excited about consummating my marriage so to speak and acting out in a sexual way my feelings of love for my wife. Okay, Scott, was this the only time you had sex with your wife? Yes, God it was…we were both virgins and we both loved each other. We saved ourselves for this day. Before this day, I had asked my father for his take on the first night, and he gave me very little help, except the advice to take more time in lovemaking with my wife. Also, my wife told me later that her instruction from her mother was pretty limited to her as well.

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