Facing and Overcoming Fears

One of the biggest reasons that many people struggle with self improvement and achieving happiness and success is because they have difficulty facing and overcoming their fears.

Fears can take on many forms, and almost every one has fears of some sort. Many fears may seem irrational to almost everyone but the person affected, and the most unlikely of people can be all but paralysed by the most improbable of fears.

Probably the most common fear that holds people back from success is the fear of failure. This can stop us from even trying something because we are so terrified of failing. Or, if we do try something, our deep-seated fear of failure can be so strong that we can almost guarantee an unsuccessful outcome to any endeavour we undertake. Fear of rejection and fear of disapproval and criticism from other people are other major inhibitors of progress. We can be so concerned that our friends, family or other people, will disapprove of our actions, or even condemn us for trying to do something above their expectations of us, that we can become so paralysed by self doubt that we try nothing new.

Many people who have tried to improve their lives and better themselves have been stopped dead in their tracks in this manner. The world is full of people, including friends and family members, who want a better life but aren't prepared to make the effort required. These people can, perhaps without even being aware of it, discourage others who are prepared to do what it takes. If we let them, they can convince us that the risks of, failure, or making fools of ourselves, or facing some other vague calamity, are so great, that leaving our comfort zone is not worth the effort.

These people may not actually have bad intentions; it's likely they have your best interest at heart. However, it's worth remembering that many people have a naturally negative attitude and fear of the unknown. This means that you are quite likely to find more people that will discourage you, rather than support you in anything 'risky' you may want to pursue.

Almost all fears are learned, many when we are children, and others through our life experiences. Many of us become convinced that taking risks is dangerous and we tend to take the safer option.

However, as fears are learned, with determination and effort, we can learn to overcome them and there is advice available from experts that can help with facing and overcoming fears. With or without help, if we are committed to a better life, we need to face our fears. We must work at replacing them, in both our conscious and subconscious minds, with an iron willed determination and commitment to success.

We must be prepared to expect criticism and disapproval and rise above it. We must be prepared to take risks because we know that the greatest successes in life often result from taking action despite our fears. This will allow us to really experience self improvement and personal development and to make real progress towards more fulfilling lives.

"You can conquer almost any fear if you will only make up your mind to do so. For remember, fear doesn't exist anywhere except in the mind" - Dale Carnegie

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Garry Zancanaro is the creator of www.SuperSuccessLibrary.com/ a collection of the Best Success and Personal Development Resources on the internet, and the founder of SelfImprovementDirectory.com where you can claim a FREE copy of Napoleon Hill’s classic ‘Think and Grow Rich'.

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