Are you an Empath?

Paularyo: Good afternoon my dear. Do you notice that sometimes you feel other people's energies? You take on their pain, or their fears, in an effort to help them. Does it help them? How does it affect you?

You learned to take on the energy of others when you were a child. You had good intentions. You wanted to be helpful...and be loved. Today taking on another's energy drains you. Their energy mixes with and blurs your energy. You become confused about who you really are deep down inside.

As we tap into your energy field, we find that you are an empath. That is, you take on the energies of the people around you. It can be very confusing for you. You take on their pain and their fears.

My dear, this makes it hard for you to be grounded. You lose yourself in the process. You have come today to learn how to return to your Self when you get lost, as you are now.

One of your soul's goals in this life is to discover how to see other people’s energy. To understand their energy. To have compassion for their energy. But to NOT take it on. It is important for you to heal this first because it affects your career path and your relationships with others

My dear, look into your body and find the energy of others which you have taken into your body. What color is it?

V: A murky orange.

Paularyo: Where is it in your body?

V: I feel it in my second chakra and my solar plexus.

Paularyo: My dear, you second chakra is your emotional chakra…your emotion from childhood. And your solar plexus is your life path. That is why this energy hits you both emotionally and in your career. Let’s go first to the energy in your emotional chakra. See your energy. Ask it how old you were when you began taking on other people’s emotions.

V: In the womb.

Paularyo: This is one of the lessons you wanted to learn in this lifetime…not to be empathic. You had to do it first, you had to be empathic first, in order to learn how not to do it.
Take this energy out of your stomach and allow it to be suspended in front of you. Ask it, “How have you served me? What have you taught me?”

V: To have compassion for where other people are coming from.

Paularyo: Absolutely! You have learned what you came to learn. You have enhanced your innate compassion. Speak to this energy. Thank it. Love it. Honor it. Tell it you are ready to transform it. You are ready now to not take on other people’s energy. Instead, to see it…to understand it…to know it…to have compassion for it…but not to take it on as your own.

Speak to this murky orange energy and ask it to transform into an energy, which serves you better today. What does it transform into?

V: A bright yellow peace sign.

Paularyo: Yellow is the energy of joy. Thank it. And ask it what does it represent for you?

V: To help others to see peace and compassion in themselves.

Paularyo: That’s wonderful! My dear, the most powerful way to teach is through modeling. As you bring this peace into your emotional chakra you model peace. Most importantly, it brings you into peace…which is why you came to us today…you haven’t been in peace.

Ask this yellow energy to return to your stomach where you once had the orange energy, and feel the peace in your stomach. How does your body feel differently with peace in your stomach? Feel it. We feel you breathing more deeply. As you have this peace in your stomach, what happens to your mind?

V: Definitely clearer.

Paularyo: Your emotions?

V: I can handle it.

Paularyo: How does it feel to know that whatever it is, you can handle it?

V: Peaceful.

Paularyo: What happens with your connection to Spirit when you have peace in your stomach?

V: It’s stronger than strong.

Paularyo: Ask your body what will happen to your weight as you have peace in your body.

V: I think that just not taking on everyone else’s energy will make a huge difference. It will reduce the size of my body.

Paularyo: With this peace in your body, you can allow it to be easy. Let’s go to the orange energy in your solar plexus. Once more, ask it how old you were when it first came to you.

V: In the womb again.

Paularyo: Absolutely. Go back to a time when you took on someone’s energy in order to try to help him or her. What comes to you?
V: My mom…when I was in the womb

Paularyo: Go back to that moment and be that embryo. You decided in this life to do that so you could learn from it. Take on her energy, and what happens to you in the womb when you take on her energy?

V: I’m taking on her energy of fear. The fear of not being free…of being tied down. And I’m questioning my purpose, why I’m here.

Paularyo: So in the womb you began to feel your mother’s pain and fear of being tied down, and beginning to wonder why you are here, which is what your mother did. You took on her issues and made them yours.

Image, my dear, that you didn’t do that. You’ve already done that once. We can recreate time. Be back there. Be in the womb. And this time instead of taking on her pain and her fear and her questioning, we want you to have compassion for her pain, and her fear, and her questioning. What happens to you in the womb as you do that?

V: I feel strong.

Paularyo: Be born. Open your third eye and look at your mother. See the truth of her emotions with your third eye. Don’t take on her emotions. What do you see?

V: I see her inner-child not feeling good enough, not feeling loved.

Paularyo: The first time around you took those on…the fear of abandonment, the fear of not being lovable. How has that impacted your life?

V: The fear of being abandoned has been huge. So I abandon others before they can abandon me.

Paularyo: The two of them merged…the fear of being abandoned and the fear of not being lovable. You took these on from your mother as soon as you were born.

My dear, re-create your life. As you are born, open your third eye. Instead of taking on her pain, have compassion for her. How does it feel?
V: I feel like the big person here.

Paularyo: You feel wise, do you not? Your wisdom is available to you. When you took on her pain and fear, you went into your head and out of your heart. When you are in compassion you are in your heart, you have your wisdom available to you. You return to your Spirit.

Be in your energy of Spirit. Be in your “Ka” --- the ancient Egyptian term for the energy that you brought into this life, that remains with you in this life, and that goes back to Spirit. Your Ka is your soul energy. Remain in your Ka as you look at her with compassion. Your wisdom is available to you.

Imagine that you grow up in your Ka. Go through grade school and high school. Let us know when you have completed that. Imagine how your life is different when you live it in your Ka.

V: I’m feeling strong. I’m clear with what I’m feeling, and with everything else. So I’m understood.

Paularyo: When you are without fear and without pain, you can be your Self. When you are your Self in grade school and in high school, there is freedom in that. You are just being you…it is soft and gentle and caring and compassionate. Feel the difference. Come out of high school in this energy. Describe yourself to us.

V: I’m connected. I’m one with the universe. I’m very strong.

Paularyo: And you’re allowing it to be easy. Go through the rest of your life up until this moment in your Ka and let us know how it feels.

V: Peaceful. My back is even adjusting. Letting go.

Paularyo: When your body comes into peace, it is a healing moment. When you are in pain and in fear and in your head, you are in dis-ease. Your back goes out. When you are in your heart, in peace, in your soul, in your Ka…it is a healing moment. One moment at a time. You heal your back. You allow healing.
Be in this moment, in the energy of your Ka. Feel your back. You are creating for yourself healing. Remember to breathe. Allow the universe to breathe you. Feel the peace in your body. Remember who you are …loving…kind…generous…wise…intuitive… compassionate…caring… free…generous…joyful. Be all of these things in this moment. Be healing.

V: Yes. Thank you for this session. Definitely, definitely some big shifts.

Paularyo: My dear, you were ready for this today. You were ready for a major jump forward on your path of transformation, and you did it. Easily. Effortlessly. Congratulate your Self. We wish you ease on your path, my dear. Allow it to be easy.

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© Connie Russert 2007 www.ToolsforTransformation.com

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