Vol. 6 Issue #02
LIFE WAS NEVER
MEANT TO BE A STRUGGLE, ONLY YOU CAN MAKE THAT HAPPEN!
Dear Free Spirits,
There are only ten months
left until the end of the year. What am I waiting for?
Here in British Columbia Canada the days
are getting longer and the grass is starting to grow. In fact there will
actually be people out in about two weeks cutting the stuff. I'm sure there
must be a help group around for these people.
For a country that is seen in some parts
of the world as natives living in Igloos, we have been golfing all year
round, except for a couple of days of snow. We are so blessed to be living
in a very high energy vortex.
It's February and once again I am waiting
for change, like "spring," to happen before I make my first move. In fact I
haven't even planned my first move yet. These thoughts inspired this months
'Roy Bits,' printed below. So as I mentioned in last months newsletter, I am
going to make things happen this year.
I have seven ebooks on the market that
are selling very well on the internet. I printed my first paper volume and
sent it into an editor. She has taken five months and nothing has happened.
I gave her till the middle of February to finish it or I will get someone
else. Her procrastination suited me well for a time. I thought I would have
it out for last Christmas but to my relief it didn't happen. Printing the
book just means a whole lot of world marketing it and I don't look forward
to that. Lots of dead ends, misleading information, experts telling me what
to do etc, etc. Really I was hoping it would just go away. The book is
important for me and the info will have benefit for others. So I'm going to
fire my editor if it's not ready.
Getting out of the comfort zone is not
easy for some of us who like to be comfortable. I know I always feel good
when I have accomplished something, so often I don't finish it so I don't
have to feel good and move onto something else. Starting over is the scary
Well enough of that, I did say that I
would keep you informed on my progress this year. I trust that yours is
going the same way as it was last year. You are not alone.
Roy E. Klienwachter
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A SUCCESSFUL LIFE OF
Well it's February already and only ten
more months left to the end of the year. What have you done so far this year
to change the circumstances of your life? If nothing, then you will have a
clear understanding of why your life is the way it is today, and why it will
be the same way in December.
What is it that we wait for when it comes
time to make personal choices to better ourselves. For many who find
themselves in this position, I believe they wait for others to initiate the
changes. Most of us are afraid to make changes when it involves others, for
fear of hurting them, so we do nothing.
I believe also that we are convinced that
we have to make huge changes or radical changes immediately in order to be
successful. I know this to be unfounded. Small steps make for the most
meaningful changes in our lives and has the least impact on others at the
same time. When others are involved in your lifestyle change it is important
to let the people involved know that you will be making them and what your
ultimate goals are and within what time frame this will all happen. This
display of caring allows others to make their own choices with less impact
on mutual relationships.
The time for change is now, not in March,
but now while it is on your mind and in your best interest to start your
plan. Very few of us spend any amount of time planning our personal future.
We plan our own lives around those of others and we try to fit in. Personal
success comes when we think about ourselves first. If we have nothing, then
there is nothing to give. Although we have been raised to believe that we
must give to others first, it is the backwards way of doing it. It is a
model for failure, and it is observable, because that is what most of us
having been doing all our lives. When you think of yourself first, you will
eventually have something to give away. Your happiness will bring happiness
to others. Being compassionate with yourself first will give you compassion
for others. Understanding yourself first, will bring understanding of others
and so forth.
But nothing will happen until you start
to do something. God is not going to be there for you. That which created
you gave you the power to create. He/she also gave you to power to do
nothing. Praying will not get you what you want, it may at best help you
focus your thoughts. Meditating on your future will not bring it to you,
because the future is always in front of you. It is what you do now, this
moment that will change the rest of your life. Listen to what the voice
inside you is saying. Give it some attention and ask "why not?" Do
something, anything but think about it. The climb of a thousand steps starts
with the first one. Don't wait until April to take that first step, there
are only eight more months until the end of the year. And when it gets to
September and you still haven't do anything you can always put it off till
the first of the year.
I can predict exactly what is going to
happen in your life for the next ten months simply by what you do in the
next few minutes. Life is about action, movement. Of course you can always
say in the month of your death that you had a successful life of
procrastination. All of us will die, but it is how we made the trip and how
we feel about it that makes the difference.
Roy E. Klienwachter
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Roy's Quotable Quotes
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"Life does not begin, life is all there is!"
Roy E. Klienwachter
By: Kalandar Dominique Wirz
Most religions teach us altruism and to love your neighbor like yourself.
Have you ever wondered, whether your neighbor would actually like that?
Because, frankly speaking, how much do YOU love yourself?
Of course we all love ourselves. Easy! We love ourselves in those times when
things go well, when we do the right things, when we act gracefully, when we
are likable and can feel proud of ourselves.
But what about the other times? When you make a fool out of yourself? When
you act like an idiot? When you fail or, even worse, behave in an ugly way?
When you feel ashamed and stupid and not proud of yourself one bit?
Do you still love yourself then? Or do you abandon yourself in shame and
In other words: Is your love for your self conditional or unconditional?
It's an important question. It's the question that makes all the difference
in your life!
YOU! Fundamentally you are good. Your innermost core, that which is you, is
And chances are that you try your very best to express that and you try to
live up to your divine potential (you probably wouldn't be reading this
Chances also are, that you are not 100 % successful in living up to your
And chances are, that this is exactly when you regularly abandon yourself
and stop loving yourself.
How does that feel, when you stop loving your self?
Imagine a little child, innocent, vulnerable, open. And that little child
has a friend. A big one, bigger and stronger and much more powerful than the
child itself. And the little child loves and trusts that big friend
But every time the child does something wrong, maybe something it doesn't
even know is wrong, the big friend just goes and abandons the little kid.
Just doesn't love it anymore.
The child would probably just stand there, alone and utterly confused and
hurt and it's self esteem would be completely undermined.
And because the child trusts and loves the big friend, and because the big
friend seems so much more powerful than the child, at some point the child
would side with the big friend and abandon itself.
Does that sound familiar to you? Is that what happened to you as a kid? Then
the chances are, that you are still doing exactly this: abandoning yourself
and stop loving yourself every time you do wrong. And maybe even when you
don't do anything wrong, because by now your self esteem has suffered so
much, that you just in general don't trust your self any more.
Having grown up you are now both: The child and the big friend. And as that
child you deserve unconditional love. You always have and you always will.
It is the single most important thing you need to grow, become beautiful and
flower into your full divine self. And the one person who needs to give you
that unconditional love is YOU.
How is change possible, how can you be fulfilled, when the very closest
friend you have, YOU, walks away from you. And if YOU don't take care of
that frightened, abandoned little child in you, who else will?
Now I'm not saying you are always likable. That's conditional. You might be
a real shit sometimes. Then you might not be likable.
But you are always lovable. Unconditionally.
You might also not always find it easy to love yourself. And you might ever
so often completely forget to love yourself.
But the one thing you can decide right now, is to be WILLING to always love
If you decide that, then whenever you realize you are abandoning yourself,
you can come back to loving yourself.
It doesn't mean you approve of everything you do. In fact, loving yourself
unconditionally is what gives you the possibility to disapprove of your acts
because you no longer need to identify with your acts. That makes it the
most powerful tool to help you take responsibility for your mistakes and
So if there is ONE thing you want to do for your self: Make a pact with
yourself. Make a conscious decision: To be willing to always love yourself
unconditionally. That is enough to change your life.
Kalandar Dominique Wirz is a Life Coach, specializing in working with
people who embark on a spiritual path.
He believes that life should be beautiful and love is what we are here for.
If you would like to meet Kalandar or work with him you can contact him at
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