Making Friends With Fear
What you fear, you draw near. What you love, you let go of. Life is subjective love. Life gives freedom to move away. Life does not cling. Life is unconditional freedom to move away from love.
The opposite of love is fear. Fear clings and tries to hold on. Fear imprisons the lover and restricts growth. Fear is confinement and death.
Humanity lives in fear. It is motivated by fear, not love. Because man lives in the relative world, in order for him/her to experience love, he must know fear. Love and Fear are the same emotion in physical life. In truth, there is only one emotion and that is love. As you move away from love, you experience less love and call that fear. Love is at one end of the stick and fear at the other. It is the same stick with opposite ends. Love existing at both ends but in different measure.
Humanities love is fear based. Humanity cannot experience abstract love or unconditional love. Abstract love is unconditional and has no emotion. It is life itself, free and fearless. It is the love of the creator or unconditional love that has sent us into physical reality. Unconditional love cannot be experienced unless its opposite is experienced. The creator experiences itself as unconditional love, by experience fear through you. The paper chains that bind you in physical love is fear. All of humanity lives in fear. Fear is what binds you, it is that which keeps you here. Those that say they fear nothing are afraid of fear and push it away. Intuitively they know their fear and live life demonstrating that they are not afraid. If they were not afraid, they would not have to demonstrate their bravery.
Humanities love or physical loves clings. When you love a thing or another you are afraid to let go, you experience the fear of loss even if it is in your own mind. Through fear, you chain yourselves and those that you love by keeping them close. Mankind binds himself to another with the fear that he may loose the others love.
Fear was never intended to keep you from loving another or yourselves. Fear is a friend of love, because it is the same emotion, albeit the other end of the stick. Fear is a symbol or sign to you that you have or are moving away from love you are not free and are not expressing unconditional love. What you give away comes back to you, what you hold onto you loose. It is the law of cause and effect or Karma.
You can use fear as an indicator of your love, of where it is going and how strongly you feel it. In your daily interactions with others and in and situation when you are not feeling love towards another, you are feeling fear. Ask yourself what is it that you fear in this situation? What is it that you think you are going to loose? If you are aware that fear is attached, you will find your answer. If you are completely honest with yourself, you will use the fear to find love. Make friends with fear and you will make friends with love.
You cannot experience unconditional love, or you would not be in human form. You can use it as a model and point of reference to develop the love that you are capable of experiencing in this life. Use the fear to set love free and it will come back to you. Know true unconditional love by watching it move away from you. It is fear that keeps you in and out of relationship with each other. You can only know love in this form by fearing the loss of it.
To experience love, give it away. To know unconditional love experience giving it away and feel the love as you give it away, expect nothing in return. Love is in the moment, not in the future. Especially give unconditional love to yourself, to live your life without my love. Make friends with fear and use it to guide yourself back to my love.